Laalia began refereeing in her freshman year to earn extra spending money, but over the last four years it became something she genuinely enjoys because it’s opened doors to new opportunities and introduced her to a wide range of people. She sees the soccer community as a place of connection—where you meet others who share similar experiences, including people from all over the world at tournaments. She’s looked up to senior referees as role models, learning from them how to stay composed and manage tough situations with coaches and parents. Laalia tries to challenge herself and grow in the role, and she hopes to inspire young women and girls by helping create a safe, fair, and fun playing environment
1. Can you share your journey into your current role?
I started refereeing in my freshmen year, at first it was just a way to make money. You know just to have extra cash for fun stuff. Over these last four years though I’ve found that I really do enjoy being a ref. I’ve had so many new opportunities, and even got to meet some pretty cool people.
2. What does being a part of the soccer community mean to you?
To me being a part of the soccer community means; connection. You meet so many people who are doing the same thing as you or have experienced similar situations. Not only that but you can meet people from all over the world, the variety of people you can meet a tournament is amazing.
3.If you weren’t actively participating in the development of youth soccer, what do you think you’d be doing instead?
I think if I didn’t take part in refereeing I would probably be broke, or in a job that sucked and was less flexible than refereeing.
4.Who has been a role model or mentor for you in this space?
A role model for me has been my senior referee’s or just people who have had more experience. I learned a lot from them, they taught me how to control both coaches and parents, and even myself.
5.What initiatives, programs, or events have you been part of that made a real difference?
I have not been apart of any major things, but I like to stretch myself out as far I can.
6.How do you inspire others especially young women and girls to get involved in soccer?
I inspire by being a person that does her best to create a safe and fair playing field. I also think what might inspire some is the fact that when refereeing you have to be composed and controlled, while also keeping things fun.
7.An angel investor has offered you $1m to grow the game of women’s soccer, how would you invest this money?
I would probably start by giving half of the money to an organization that provides soccer equipment to families who don’t have the means or ability to buy soccer gear. With the other half I would provide scholarships and opportunities for striving women and young girls who need that extra financial push to accomplish their dream.
8.If you could watch a match anywhere in the world, where would it be?
I think I would probably want to go with Algeria, its my dad’s homeland and it would bring a lot of joy and pride to watch.
9.What’s one change you would love to see in women’s soccer in the next 5 years?
I would love to see a change in representation, as well as having more openness and accessibility to others.
10.Favorite motivational quote or mantra?
“Just be a goldfish”
11.Best book, movie, or TV show about soccer you’ve ever seen?
Ted Lasso
12.What’s your favorite piece of soccer gear or memorabilia you own?
I think my most favorite piece of memorabilia would probably be my team pictures and photos. Having those memories gives me a chance to look back and see the good times or even just seeing how I’ve changed over the years.